Family 03

TOPIC

The role of family relationships in childhood development

(上記TOPIC、英語で意見を論理的に述べる技術とトレーニング第7章より引用)

Essay

 Family relationships in childhood development have tremendous influence on people and I believe that there are the two most important primary roles of family relationships.
 The first role is to give children unconditional acceptance and love. Statistics demonstrate that 62% of prostitutes and 90% of murderers were abused as children and many successful people have unconditionally accepting parents. Unconditional acceptance and love give children mental security and confidence and self-esteem which are extremely important to lead a happy life.
 The second role is to give children great practical education since existing school education is not practical and almost waste of time. Therefore it is the family role to provide children with practical education, such as how to maintain health physically and mentally, and how to deal with emotions effectively and heal bad memories and let go of fixed ideas and choose love over fear, and about human relationships and human behavior, and how to find and do what one loves and earn enough money by it, and how this universe works, and how to make oneself happy, and how to create one’s ideal future.
 For the aforementioned reasons, I believe that these are the two most important primary roles of family relationships.

メモ

子供の発育における家族の役割です。
先進国の子供は、マズローの5段階欲求説の、1、2段階、生理欲求、安全欲求が、日常で満たされていると仮定して、次の、3、4、5段階、愛情欲求、承認欲求、自己実現欲求を、子供が満たせるようになるために、家族が子供にするべきことを、書いてみました。
キーアイディア1は、愛情と承認、キーアイディア2は、実用教育を通じての自己実現についてです。